When Everyone Wins with Judy Ryan: Shifting Power-Over & Under to Power Within & Between: Transforming Fear Into A Happy Life And Healthy Relationships, with Guest Jacqueline Wales

In the work of my company LifeWork Systems, we start by explaining to people that the root cause of all struggles within people and between people comes from a sense of shame and inferiority feelings. As children, we have large and small T trauma -  experiences that often strengthen the idea that we are not seen, safe, nor can we count on being soothed and supported!. This prevents us from believing in and creating win/win relationships with others because we have developed so much pain and fear. This fear is the root cause of ongoing misery and dysfunction, and the basis of win/lose dynamics we continue to perpetuate unless and until it is resolved within us.

We don't know what to do with these beliefs and stored trauma, and without understanding and support, we can remain stuck for literally decades in physical and mental states of stress.  Until then, we cannot how to transform our fear into a happy life with healthy relationships we know how to create and maintain. Because I know shame and fearful limiting beliefs cripple people and cause such struggles, I have invited a guest to my program who understands how to transform deep-seated fear into success and happiness. Through her personal story, including her own transformation of debilitating fear, she frees others to do the same. This transformation must occur in order to create a world in which all people love their lives. It is the precursor to creating win/win relationships and to using our power in creative and life-giving, life-supportive ways.

What we discuss in this interview may include:

1. What is your story Jacqueline?
2. How has your transformation process served you in creating win/win dynamics within yourself and with others?
3. What are stories you have that describe what happens when you have helped others do the same?
4. What would be your advice to people in leadership roles, including parents, educators and organizational executives and others who have direct reports? 
5. How would you describe the use of power within people who have faced and transformed their fears? What contributions do you see them making?

Watch Here: https://youtu.be/DL9BNtuSr6s